효과적인 청취를 위한 팁
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Grady Lagerstrom님이 1월 5, 2022에 게시함
우리는 종종 우리가 듣고있는 것보다 말하는 것에 대해 훨씬 더 많은 생각을하고 있습니다. 그러나 우리가 효과적으로 의사 소통을한다면 정말 매우 중요합니다. 사람들이 실제로 접촉하지 않고 서로 대화하기 때문에 관계의 대부분의 분해는 발생합니다. 누군가가 하위 텍스트처럼 말한 것을 듣지 않는 한 가치가 거의없는 것.
우리가 적극적으로주의를 기울 였을 때 우리는 가치가 있다고 느끼고 협상과 타협에 참여할 가능성이 훨씬 높습니다.
듣기는 거의 말보다 훨씬 더 많습니다. 얼굴 표정과 신체 제스처를 보는 것은 일반적으로 사용되는 단어에 비해 훨씬 정확한 기압계입니다.
실제로 미소가 눈에 닿지 않는 곳에서 좋은 말은 명백한 예가 될 수 있습니다.
매우 효과적인 청취자가 되려면 적극적으로 듣는 것이 필수적입니다.
훨씬 더 나은 청취자가되는 법을 배우는 팁
눈 접촉을합니다.화자의 신체 언어를 읽으십시오. 그들은 편안하고, 불안하고, 화를 냈습니까? 극단은 인식하기 쉬운 작업이지만 일반적으로 메시지는 훨씬 더 미묘합니다 #- #화자의 신체 언어를 미묘하게, 미묘하게, 풍자 만화보다는 부드러운 춤.당신이 듣고 있다는 것을 보여주고, 끄덕임, 적절한 응답 만들기관련 질문을하고, 이런 것들이 의미에 대해 아직 결정하지 않았는지요약 : 정확히 당신이 말하는 것은 ..........열린 종료 질문, 누가, 무엇, 어디서, 언제,-
질문에 응답하거나 질문하면 목소리의 어조를 조심하십시오. 스페인 종교 재판소에서 판단력이 있거나 심문자가되는 것은 쉬운 일입니다. #공감을 사용하십시오. 어려움을 인정하지만 자신의 경험에서 일화에 들어가는 함정에 속하지 않도록주의하십시오.진실한 관심을 취하십시오. 당신이 단순히 성실함이 덜 진실한 움직임을 통해 바로 가고있는 경우 의심 할 여지없이 다른 사람들에게는 분명 할 것입니다. 자존심을 남겨두고 파트너에게 집중하십시오. 막대한 배당금을 지불합니다..